The Sunday Self-Care Chronicles - Newsletter Archives
Welcome to the Sunday Self-Care Chronicles — my weekly love note to breast cancer patients, survivors, caregivers, and anyone learning to care for their body (and heart) after diagnosis.
Each Sunday, I share a mix of personal reflections, practical tools, and honest education rooted in both professional experience and lived survivorship. These aren’t fluffy wellness tips — they’re real-world, body-focused strategies to help you feel more informed, more supported, and more like yourself again.
You can browse by category, revisit your favorites, or start wherever your nervous system says “yes.”
Let’s make this less scary together — one Sunday at a time.
Start Here: Your You-Shaped Self-Care
Part one of a “Best Of” series lays the foundation for real self-care after breast cancer—redefining what “normal” means now and how to design it for yourself. Includes two free tools to help you reconnect with your body and your needs.
When communication IS self-care.
A reflection on communication, individuality, and community—because healing grows stronger when we create space for honesty, safety, and trust.
The world is loud. Here’s your quiet.
When the world feels loud and your heart feels heavy, come back to what steadies you. This “Best Of: When Times Are Hard” collection gathers four reflections—on healing, rest, change, and calm—that remind us our bodies, like the seasons, know what to do.
Breast Cancer Awareness Month: choose your own adventure
A “best of” on Breast Cancer Awareness Month—reflections on pink ribbons, the silent majority who choose privacy, and why metastatic breast cancer must be part of the story.
READER POLL: October is complicated. Let’s check in.
A quick check-in before October begins—two polls to share how you’re feeling about BCAM and what kind of support you’d like in your inbox this month.
My favorite feel-good emails (with zero cancer talk)
Two of my favorite email lists that have nothing to do with cancer—and everything to do with joy, ease, and a little inbox magic.
Reclaiming Freedom (and my passport) after cancer ✈️
This week’s Sunday Self-Care Chronicles is about reclaiming FREEDOM through travel after breast cancer—and how self-care can give you the confidence to feel safe and supported wherever you go.
What paragliding, yoga, and nipple-less breasts have in common.
This week’s Sunday Self-Care Chronicles is a heartfelt exploration of the five values that anchor my life and work after breast cancer.
From smiling at my nipple-less breasts with more acceptance than I ever had before, to paragliding as an act of freedom, each value carries a story—and an invitation for you to reflect on your own.
It’s a warm, personal reminder that healing is as much about what we believe in as what we do.
You don’t have to be who you were. You get to be who you are.
This week’s Self-Care Chronicles is a quiet meditation on change—featuring a poem that beautifully captures the truth that we are always becoming. If you’ve ever struggled to recognize yourself after cancer, this one’s for you.
I won an award! Now I’m honored, humbled… and fired up 🔥
I just won a national award for my work supporting the breast cancer community through massage and self-care education! Inside, I reflect on what the recognition means, how it reinforces my mission, and why learning to use your own hands might be the most powerful act of healing after breast cancer.
What your doctor doesn’t know can hurt you.
This week’s Sunday Self-Care Chronicles dives into what happens when well-meaning doctors make massage referrals they’re not actually qualified to give—and why that can leave breast cancer survivors in more pain than they started with.
Some things you can’t learn in a classroom.
This week’s Sunday Self-Care Chronicles is a candid reflection on what it really means to understand and serve in the breast cancer community. If you’ve ever felt like your providers don’t fully understand what you’re carrying, this one’s for you.
Space > Time (in healing and in life)
This week’s Chronicles is a real-talk reminder that healing isn’t just about time passing—it’s about making space for what your body and heart actually need. If you’ve been feeling stuck, stretched thin, or like “rest” just isn’t doing it, this one’s worth a read.
Pink Ribbons, Identity, and Finding Myself Again
This week’s Chronicles is a heartfelt look at how breast cancer can reshape your identity—and what it takes to find your way back to yourself. If you’ve ever felt like cancer tried to redefine who you are, this one’s for you.
Real Talk: Even I hit my cancer limit this week.
This week's Chronicles is a raw, no-filter take on what it's like to hit your limit in cancer land—even when it's your calling. If you've ever felt totally "cancered out," this one's for you.
Proactive > Reactive Lymphedema Care: Don’t Wait for the Swelling to Start
Breast cancer-related lymphedema is the perfect example of how proactive vs. reactive care can be the difference in empowered living or living with another chronic side effect.
The Truth About Prevention and Proactive Care
This week I want to talk about a word that gets thrown around a lot in healthcare, wellness spaces, and even self-care circles:
Prevention.
It sounds empowering but it can also feel loaded with responsibility. Because here’s the truth: Not everything can be prevented.
Self-Care Isn’t Always Cute (But It Can Save Your Life)
There are lots of times that self-care doesn’t look like something we actually want to do but often these are things that are the most important for our long term health and well-being.
For example, on Friday I had a colonoscopy.
If You've Never Had Oncology Massage, Start Here
If you’ve never had an "oncology" massage, you’re not alone—and you’re not supposed to already know what to expect. Let’s fix that.
